This website and blog have been over a month in the making (unless we’re going to be philosophical about it). Part of the reason it took so long is that I was trying to come up with a poetic title that would encompass the variety of topics I cover in my writing yet also capture the themes that string them all together.
One of the central threads you’re bound to notice in my work is that dirty F-word…
So, for now, it’s called “Blog.” But during my research for a name, I spent some time poking around on a word association website.
And almost lost. My. Cookies.
Here’s the thing: One of the central threads you’re bound to notice in my work is that dirty F-word, feminism.
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Yay, thanks for hanging around! Stick with me. While I am well aware of gender inequality, double standards, and just how prevalent these things are, sometimes I do still get a shock.
For example, in simply searching for word associations for “her” and “him,” I ugly cried on the inside. Not only does “him” apparently link to a much smaller vocabulary of words, the words conjure an image of authority and opportunity:
But here is a sampling of a much larger list of words… things to do with “her”:
There are so many directions I could go with this, my head is spinning. (Did you notice the anatomy terminology, or lack thereof?) But for today, I’ll say this: With “her,” we find the male terms husband, boyfriend, and stepfather, as well as the female terms grandmother, niece, mother, sister, and aunt. Yet, I see now relationship roles at all listed under “him.”
What is she, after all, if she isn’t something in relation to him?